Sit, Stay, Beg

I wonder how many adoptees consider themselves Favor-ed Children.... meaning, you do lots of favors for people,  either for attention, or  another person's approval or acceptance?  

For instance, how many adoptees were star athletes, students or performers?  How many did well in these areas because it was expected to do so?  How many consider themselves Pleasers? 

How many try to please people they don't even like, just because anything is better than being Alone?