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Africa now has 43 million orphans. Children from the Kondanani orphanage in Bvumbwe, on the outskirts of Malawi's capital Blantyre, walk to visit with pop star Madonna last Thursday. Reports that the star wants to adopt a Malawian child have focused attention on foreign adoptions in Africa --- and raised questions about whether it's in the child's best interest.

JOHANNESBURG, South Africa --- Reports that Madonna may have adopted a Malawian child have focused attention on foreign adoptions in Africa --- and raised questions about whether it's in an African child's best interest to be spirited away to the wealthy West.

"Are celebrities doing it for the right reasons and not to make a statement?" asked Pam Wilson of the Johannesburg Child Welfare Society. Comments on talk radio across the region have been even more pointed, with callers accusing the pop-music star of going on a "shopping expedition."

At this time, current legislation in Malawi does not even allow for intercountry adoptions. This would make it illegal for Madonna to take home a child from Malawi, although there are rumors that restrictions were to be waived for her.

The adoption of children from poorer nations --- Cambodia, Ethiopia, Romania --- by rich foreigners has been happening for decades. Angelina Jolie adopted her son, Maddox, from Cambodia and her daughter Zahara from Ethiopia. Mia Farrow, now the mother of 14, began adopting children from poor countries in 1973 with an orphan from the Vietnam War.

Wilson said there would always be a "demand" for children from developing countries.

"There is a shortage of healthy babies in the First World, particularly now when there is no longer such a stigma to being a single parent and there are few babies in the system," she said.

Adoptions of orphans from abroad have been increasing steadily in the United States --- to more than 22,000 in 2004. Russia, China and Guatemala have been the main sources of these children; only a few hundred per year have come from Africa.

By 2010, the U.N. estimates, 18 million African children will have lost a parent to AIDS. Already there are more than 43 million orphans on the world's poorest continent.

In Africa, orphans usually are absorbed into extended families, but AIDS has affected many of the people who might have traditionally provided support. So, many of those millions who have lost parents to AIDS or other causes are cared for by orphanages --- or find themselves living on the streets.

While some may see a great need being left unfilled, international adoptions are not "an easy option," said Jackie Schoeman, executive director of Cotlands, a South African organization that cares for children affected by HIV.

"For us, first prize is to place the kids locally or even regionally. If the only other option is for them to be in a long-term institution, then we would consider international adoption."

Schoeman said there were advantages to international adoptions. Recently one of the children for whom her organization cares was adopted by parents in the U.S. and now can receive medical care unavailable in South Africa.

However, Schoeman and others are concerned about the long-term effects of such a big move on a child, particularly in the development of cultural and individual identities.

"We don't really know enough about what a black child growing up in Finland is going to feel. I don't think it would be an alien culture because they would have grown up exposed to it. But will they have felt better staying at home?" she asked.

At the heart of the matter is the motivation of people wanting to adopt orphans from troubled countries, especially HIV-positive children.

"Sometimes the response is emotional. They just want to help without understanding the long-term implications," Schoeman said.

Some advocacy groups in the United States say Americans seeking to adopt should turn first to children in the U.S. foster care system, but Adam Pertman --- executive director of the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute --- says both domestic and overseas adoptions are growing, and should be encouraged.

As for celebrities adopting poor children from Africa, Pertman said there was no reason to be critical or cynical.

"They're doing what more Americas all over the country are doing --- adopting children," he said. "More Americans are adopting from abroad, more are adopting from Africa. ... They (the celebrities) just happen to be getting the attention."

"Is there a self-serving aspect to it? I don't have any idea," Pertman said. "They didn't do anything fundamentally different from other families. They did a really good thing for a couple of kids."

2006 Oct 12