Links to personal favs
Teddy asked about ways and places in which "private time" can be done, privately. http://poundpuplegacy.org/node/23066#comment-8789
Since my only Alone Time is when FDH is gone at work and all 4 are at school, "alone time" for me turns out to be an hour here, and a couple of hours there, hoping there's not too much house-work to be done and the damn phone won't ring.
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Since that's the case, I have made good use of my computer... knowing many times all I need to get me going is a quick visual or passionate love-story to keep me inspired and interested in sex, love and future romance.
With that, here are some links to my favorite love-stories that can be seen on-line. Since I'm an insomniac, I can easily click and watch (or read), and go to sleep knowing yes, when the kids and FDH are gone, I can go to work and get things done... so to speak.
Bridges of Madison Country: my two favorite scenes being when Franchesca takes a bath after Robert takes his shower, and the final scene, here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AaMST_hNUVQ
I feel like such a dorky novice, limiting myself to Youtube... but porn sites intimidate me...especially since so much of that stuff seems so faked and contrived... besides, I really don't want to be caught by my kids looking at sex sites on my laptop when I should be getting dinner ready. [It's like being a 15 year old boy, but with more freakish baggage and weird insecurities.]
If anyone has other suggestions for other AA-ers to check-out, by all means, please add those links... I have the feeling I'm quite lame when it comes to this stuff and I have no doubt other people who understand the plight of the sexual retard could show me a thing or two!
