Anger

Here we are, almost 2007, and what do we have to show for the social order Adoption has created?   Are we all happy, well-adjusted highly understood people yet???  noooooo????  HMMM.... well what seems to be the problem folks?  All these studies done on animals, and new drugs curing all sorts of depression...and no ill after affects can be seen by the children in mixed marriages of drug addicts and porn stars... right?  Well done! I guess we are all experts in our fields, doing what we do best. 

Could a global problem of mis-understood miscommunication be solved simply by allowing people a chance to share without it costing anything? Is it possible for a person of a different breed of culture and up-bringing tell his own personal life story, without interruption, and feel good knowing judgements are made only by the ones who never made a mistake?  Is the internet-community world of www's doing anything like that anywhere?  I think there is much to be gained when we share stories of loss.  I believe the more we know about how similar pain from Loss is, the more helpful and supportive we can become for those heavy in need of compassionate Understanding.   We ALL have Stories... each story shared between people is a lesson learned by SOMEONE.  

The way I see it, a bottom-dwelling Pound Pup forced to live a horrible life sees the beauty behind a bloody mess, because no one is born to be a ruthless animal... that is a lesson taught (beaten-in) by those surrounding the seemingly stupid bastard.   ... but then how can that be explained by just me?  I need help.  Legal Issues don't help me.  [In fact, those matters are what hurt me and 'my mommy' in the First Place!]  I want Life Stories that illustrate man's inhumanity to man, so history can stop beating itself on the one most hurt.

Show me A Survivor who loathes whining babies, I will show you an ignorant shrew and busines man looking at the bottom line who simply does not GET what happens when a door gets closed, and the face of that Stranger is hungry to attack.  The Closed era of Adoption has left a legacy of closed minded opinion, so let the records show.... I could care less about a birth certificate  A piece of paper will not make my life better, it will only make it worse.  Why?  I know for myself, I can't take any more LIES!  Until I am free from my past that still haunts, there's no point in discussing Future Plans.  That's how I operate.

Compassion is supposed to be a lesson learned at home?  Well, folks, I think it's time adoption advocates, social scientists and law makers alike sat down and listened to the angry adoptees who got hurt by those who took them home with them because a piece of paper said they could do so.

Please tell me, if family preservation is at the heart and soul of family values, why are so many lawmakers trying to break families apart through adoption?