Intimate relationships

Do you brace or prepare for rejection in relationships?

Kerry — Tue, 30 Oct 2007 15:55:14 -0600

* Yes\n* No\n* I never really thought about it\n* \n* \n

Intimate relationships

When someone goes to touch me in a friendly way:

neophyte — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 12:58:04 -0600

* I brace and stiffen and look real obvious and uncomfortable\n* I back away and avoid physical contact, but try not to make it look too obvious\n* I try to grin and bear it, and just wait for it to be over\n* I love being touched, hugged, and kissed\n* I'm usually the one touching, hugging, and kissing people, first\n

Intimate relationships

Describe your dental health

Kerry — Sat, 04 Aug 2007 19:46:20 -0600

* My teeth and mouth are very healthy and in great shape\n* I have one or two fillings, but who doesn't?\n* My teeth are a mess (due to neglect) and in need of repair\n* I'm in the process of having professional dental work done due to years of neglect\n

Bartender !?!

Describe your Dating-Days:

Kerry — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:33:39 -0600

* I never had a bad date -- I would always make sure I'd have a good time, even if I saw no future with the person\n* I never liked dating; it's far too socially stressful, so I prefer to keep to myself and a small group of close friends\n* I have no desire to date because it means sex and intimacy will be required\n* My dates went from psycho-bad to much worse, so I decided to marry the first sane person I could find\n* What's "dating"?\n

Intimate relationships

Sex for me is:

Kerry — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 07:38:58 -0700

* a solitary secret, better kept to myself\n* an enjoyable shared experience with the one I love\n* a source of huge anxiety\n* a vague memory\n

Intimate relationships

When I think of "home", I think of:

Kerry — Fri, 10 Aug 2007 07:42:06 -0600

* Where I was born\n* Where I was raised\n* Where I am loved\n* Being alone\n

Child placement

How would you describe yourself...

Kerry — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:36:43 -0600

* Attractive/Sexy\n* Funny\n* Smart\n* All of these\n* None of these\n

Intimate relationships

My father was in the military

Kerry — Sun, 22 Jul 2007 08:02:51 -0600

* Yes\n* No\n* Both fathers were in the military\n* I'm not sure\n

Child placement

Sex with your current partner is:

Kerry — Wed, 21 May 2008 04:00:14 -0600

* A very good, (if not great), satisfying experience for both of us each and every time\n* OK. I suppose it could be better, but I don't know how or where to begin to improve it\n* Terrible, but my partner doesn't know that\n* Non-existent. We stopped having sex a long time ago, and it's awful\n* Non-existent. We stopped having sex a long time ago, and it works well for us\n

Intimate relationships

Looking back at your dating-pattern, was your "First Love" a toxic relationship?

Kerry — Fri, 16 May 2008 02:51:33 -0600

* Yes, absolutely!\n* It wasn't the healthiest relationship, but it wasn't the worst I found for myself, either\n* I did ok making dating-choices, so my first-love was a good experience\n* My "First-Love" has become my only love\n* \n

Intimate relationships

Describe your sense of loyalty:

Kerry — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 06:45:47 -0600

* I am loyal to my family and those I love \n* I am loyal to those I respect/fear\n* I am loyal to myself, and the beliefs/causes I consider most important and dear\n* I have no idea what it means to be committed to one sense of "loyalty", because I'm constantly changing my mind\n

RADical thinking

Are you drawn to damaged people and lost-causes?

Kerry — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:14:17 -0600

* All the time; I like to be the hero in these situations\n* It seems damaged people like to find me - I don't know why\n* I try to stay away from drama, and the damage it causes as much as possible\n

Scrap-Book of Mixed Messages

Masturbation:

Kerry — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 08:25:25 -0600

* Repulses me and fills me with grief\n* Is great for stress relief\n* Helps me go to sleep\n* \n

Intimate relationships

Can Behavior Modification help reform sexual predators?

Kerry — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 10:15:35 -0600

* Yes\n* No\n* I don't know\n

Child abuse

Are you drawn to "angry", aggressive sex/pornography?

Kerry — Tue, 22 Apr 2008 21:01:25 -0600

* Yes. Often. In fact, B&D fascinates me very much\n* At times. Sometimes it's nice to mix things up\n* Not at all. Sex should be loving, not angry.\n

Intimate relationships

Do you have confidence in your body-image?

Kerry — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 14:06:18 -0700

* Yes\n* No\n* I feel confident when someone shows me a lot of attention\n* \n* \n

Intimate relationships

Have you ever taken prescription anti-depressants?

Kerry — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 07:37:49 -0600

* Yes\n* No\n* I refuse to take them\n* Maybe I should see a medical doctor, because I think I should be on medication\n

Intimate relationships

Was marriage a means of escape for you?

Kerry — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 13:35:23 -0700

* Yes\n* No\n* Almost, but I got smart and changed my mind\n

Intimate relationships

Are you drawn to date the same "type" of person?

Kerry — Sun, 10 Feb 2008 11:28:58 -0700

* I'm drawn to all sorts of people; it depends on how well our personalities click and fit\n* I tend to fall for a certain look or feature in a person\n* I try to avoid certain traits and qualities in a date\n* I never noticed\n* \n

Intimate relationships

Which do you prefer MOST:

Kerry — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 09:10:20 -0700

* Food\n* Sex\n* Money\n* Undecided\n

Intimate relationships

My current love-relationship:

Kerry — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 13:26:23 -0700

* the person is perfect, but the family is difficult and causing problems\n* the family is fabulous, but the person seems to have doubts and difficulties\n* we seem to be a perfect match\n* relationships and I don't mix, so I don't stay with one partner\n* \n

Intimate relationships

Which way do you prefer sleeping

Kerry — Tue, 01 Jan 2008 19:05:59 -0700

* With someone for sex, then alone for sleep\n* A perfect pillow to cuddle and no fighting over blankets and covers\n* A pillow, another person, and whatever keeps us warm\n

Intimate relationships

Do you expect your mate to cheat, betray and/or leave you?

Kerry — Thu, 27 Dec 2007 07:54:31 -0700

* Yes\n* No\n* \n* \n* \n

Intimate relationships

How many have gone (or continue to go) to therapy for "failed relationships"?

Kerry — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 06:22:49 -0700

* Yes\n* No\n* I have often thought about going, but was afraid to discuss my past with a stranger\n

Intimate relationships

marriage....

Kerry — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 07:02:26 -0600

* is the only way to keep a family together\n* is the best way to keep together\n* is one way to keep a family together\n* \n* \n