Intimate relationships

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The Criminal Mind

How would you describe yourself...

Kerry — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:36:43 -0600

* Attractive/Sexy\n* Funny\n* Smart\n* All of these\n* None of these\n

Intimate relationships

Adult RAD's and their baby-steps towards secure intimacy

Kerry — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 05:09:24 -0600

I've been reading a lot of posts on a website that teaches sex/porn addicts how to reform their detached sex-deeds through non-orgasmic learning. The author of the book and website wrote the following post-reply that made me think about the Adult RAD's Response.

She wrote: [In response to a question about the shelf-life of her book's suggested techniques]

Intimate relationships

A few words about ADDICTIONS

Kerry — Fri, 16 May 2008 02:18:22 -0600

Coffee, cookies, chocolate. Sports, sex, smoking, Drugs, diets, drinking. Pick a demon, any demon.... which one claims the life of someone you know? Add a dick; shun. Addiction.

Intimate relationships

The Divorce-Alternative

Kerry — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 13:17:01 -0600

I had a very interesting discussion with a good friend today... we were talking about the moral-alternative to divorcing a man who makes a great dad, but hideous husband. Often, a couple will get married because a child is involved, but later divorce in misery because the marriage aspect of the relationship sucked. Specifically... no one was getting sex or feeling remotely liked, "in that way".

Intimate relationships

Touched

Kerry — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:28:28 -0600

I'm funny when it comes to touching and being touched. I can easily be around another person's body, and see it for it's anatomical parts, but don't ask me to get personal, because I will have to let my mind out so it can stray. My professional goal, as assigned by my adoptive parents, was to become a R.N. As a nurse, it was my job to take care of what was hurting or causing infection in another person. Picture for a moment, what that job implies...

Intimate relationships

Virginity ruling raises outcry in France

Kerry — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 17:08:41 -0600

Annulment of Muslim marriage raises debate on secular vs. religious values

The Associated Press

updated 5:48 p.m. ET, Wed., June. 4, 2008

PARIS - The bride said she was a virgin. When her new husband discovered that was a lie, he went to court to annul the marriage — and a French judge agreed.

Intimate relationships

Men Sexually Abused in Childhood, Survivors

Kerry — Thu, 22 May 2008 03:52:24 -0600

A man climbs up the tree of his life, his own family tree, digging into his memories in order to understand the cause of his difficulties and weariness of life. The difficulties for a male survivor of sexual abuse to share intimacy with his girlfriend.

The Bleeding Grounds

Overcoming the fear that lives inside

Kerry — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 10:52:33 -0600

I think it's safe to say each one of us has hidden fears and insecurities within us. In fact, I cannot imagine anyone being so perfect that deep inside there isn't s single fear related to weakness or personal flaw. [Of course, I could be wrong...!]

My question is, how does the person imobilized by mistrust get over the feelings of fear and angry panic, especially when "change" means "more of the same"?

The Bleeding Grounds

My father was in the military

Kerry — Sun, 22 Jul 2007 08:02:51 -0600

* Yes\n* No\n* Both fathers were in the military\n* I'm not sure\n

Child placement

What in the world could I possibly be thinking when I read this?

Kerry — Wed, 21 May 2008 07:20:29 -0600

I have an unnatural need to know what makes a healthy-relationship So. Call it obsession, call it addiction, call it having-too-much-time-on-my-hands, but the quest for wholeness in my mind goes far beyond my laundry-list of adoption issues -- my quest is simply all rooted and stemed from them!

So... I find the following article written by a man, (I'm assuming, but these days, who knows anymore?). And he offers some friendly advice in terms of finding/attracting a certain-type of female.

Bartender !?!

The Big Question: What makes a Nice Guy worth keeping?

Kerry — Fri, 23 May 2008 11:30:01 -0600

I've been coming-down on the opposite-sex in one of my blogs, "What in the world could I possibly be thinking when I read this?" because I feel there is a huge amount of harmful-thinking taking place in the dating-scene.

Truth is, no gender is free from making bad choices or bad moves in the love-sex department. We are all human, and we ALL make mistakes. I believe this is how we learn how to get things right in our lives.

Intimate relationships

What are the drawbacks of masturbation?

Kerry — Fri, 23 May 2008 07:41:10 -0600

From, Reuniting: Healing With Sexual Relationships

Intimate relationships

Homosexual Teen Suicide

Kerry — Thu, 22 May 2008 11:58:43 -0600

Shaun Bourget, M.A.,M.F.T.
GayHealth.com, 2000/05/09

Abuse after childplacement

In the name of WHAT?

Kerry — Sun, 10 Feb 2008 09:24:48 -0700

There's no hiding the fact that I am a compulsive People-Watcher. I'm completely facinated by the workings of love-matches, and how they work (or don't work).

Working as a nurse in a hospital, then as a sales associate at Victoria's Secret, I've seen just about every dynamic I can think of co-existing between two (or more) people. Nothing shocks or surprises me, other than those relationships that seem mutually happy and satisfying well past the "honeymoon stage".