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Which man in a woman's life has the right to agree to an adoption plan?

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I was just reading an update to a contested adoption case, and found the opening sentences quite shocking.

 Little Grayson Vaughn's biological mother and her ex-husband, who isn't Grayson's father, gave the baby up for adoption.  [From:  Heartbreak in Indiana custody case, October 30, 2010, ABC news]

Adoption laws really confuse me, so I need to ask.... does an ex-husband, who is not a child's bio father, have the right to agree to an adoption plan? [I can't imagine this being acceptable.]

This leads to my next question...

If a first-father's rights have been ignored and violated, and the first-father wants custody, (and said so to the mother before the child was born and an adoption was completed), shouldn't the adoption plan executed by the birth-mother be considered null and void because both parents did not agree to relinquish parental rights to that child?   [To give better perspective, review any and all of these adoption cases, because they all read pretty much the same to me...]

by Kerry on Sunday, 31 October 2010