How to adopt, raise, and train a great dog.
The Perfect Pooch
By The Editors of Men's Health
"Your dog will always look to you for leadership. He wants it," says Brian Kilcommons, a dog trainer and the author of My Smart Puppy. "You can't let him get the best of you." Here are three fundamental principles of assuming the alpha role:
1. Take the Pole Position
The dominant role is ceded when you least expect it. Take the front door, for example: Pack leaders go through narrow openings first. If you let your dog dart out in front of you, you've been demoted to beta boy. When out on walks, stay even with your pooch and control the stops yourself, says Kilcommons. Start with short walks (just a few steps) and use food as a reward when your dog doesn't dash. When it comes to chow time, the primal pecking order of meals is important to your dog. Always eat first, then feed Fido. It sends a clear message: "Me master, you dog."
2. Pay Out Treats, Not Slack
Without consistency and clarity, you create confusion for your dog. Give nothing for free. At the very least, make him sit before you give him a treat. "It reminds him who has the opposable thumbs," says Jean Donaldson, director of the Academy for Dog Trainers at the San Francisco SPCA. Always correct mistakes, even when things are going well. "The problem most owners have is that they use commands only when they need to," says Kilcommons. "Then you've already lost the game."
3. Be a Benevolent Master
Dominance isn't about inspiring fear, it's about earning respect and loyalty. Correct bad behavior with a firm voice and direct eye contact. Skip the yanking, shouting, and chair chucking. And make sure you initiate any lovefest: It's cute when the dog nudges you for some belly rubs, but it's a telltale sign that he's trying to be top dog.
The Take-Home Test
Our canine experts share their secrets for spotting a top-notch dog.
Socialization: Squat, clap your hands, and watch how he comes. Running hard with head and tail up is a sign of assertiveness. A lowered head and wagging tail shows politeness.
Stability: Cradle a puppy in your arms. A secure dog will have a subtle reaction and calm himself. A difficult dog will struggle. With an adult dog, look in his ears and mouth, run your hand down his body, and hold his feet. You want him to be relaxed and glare-free.
Sound sensitivity: Stand 1 to 2 feet away and drop a set of keys. An unfazed dog won't care about car alarms, jackhammers, or crying babies.
Find Your Doggie Match
Settle on the wrong type and you're looking at years of frustration and work. "People want a pet, not a project," says Kilcommons. Use this expert-approved guide to choose the best dog for your lifestyle.
If you work erratic hours...
Pet this: Whippet. They're sweet and patient, and retain muscle without exercise, says Donaldson. But they will pass idle time on your furniture.
Not that: Weimaraner. They need structure and can tear into your house when left alone too long.
If she has a cat...
Pet this: Shih tzu. They're super friendly more playmate than predator and can make women melt.
Not that: Parson Russell terrier. Even if these type-A hunters don't attack, they'll harass kitty to death. Amusing for you, but not for kitty's mommy.
Pet this: Greyhound. They're bred to stay in stalls until race time, so if you take them for daily walks, they'll be happy to veg out in one spot.
Not that: Beagle. They tend to circle and bay all day like they're hunting rabbits. Neighbors revolt!
If you have (or plan to have) kids...
Pet this: Bernese mountain dog. They're enthusiastic and even-tempered, and love playmates. The trade-off: They shed. Lots.
Not that: Dalmatian. Originally bred to guard carriages, they're suspicious and protective. Kids will look like interlopers.
If you need a workout buddy...
Pet this: German shorthaired pointer. High energy and intelligence make them great dogs for active owners. But they need plenty of exercise.
Not that: Scent hound. Every smell will lure them off your running route.