
When it's over, it's over. As i stated in an earlier post, when that connection is broken, it never comes back, with me that is. One big thing or a series of little things can change my whole outlook on a person and our relationship...at which point it becomes dark and black, no longer rewarding to me, the person that has become unattached. There is no telling when of if this will ever happen. It is like a light that with out warning goes out.
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Darkest before the Dawn
That's interesting... because I have always had a weakness to Forgive.
Forget? Never
Forgive?
Is there any other option?
forgiving is
forgiving is the easy part...
reconnection is not...
Finding Ballance
Part of the whole slippery slope of serindipity I have learned throughout my own personal journey is realizing my intrinsic need to trust has been SO damaged by The Shrew, I had almost forgotten who else needed to be blamed for my pain. My dad. Both of them left me when i needed A Parent.
The Adoption Triad has different meaning to those betrayed by a parent-figure. Oddly-enough, Adoption is not a triad, simply by the fact that it takes two to create a child, and back-in-the-day, it took two to adopt a child. The odd one out was indeed, The Child.
How can there be a sense of secure ballance in the story of the forgotten, unprotected child? We are forced to find it ourselves, through strangers.