All credibility gone
Over the past week an msn group members discussed a new site they wanted to set up. The member whose idea it was said it would be a board for people to say whatever they wanted to other people with no come back. All the replies showed great enthusiasm and suggestions of what they intended to do. They all expressed glee at the anonymous email address and the fact IP addresses would be impossible to trace. The site is now set up. How will anyone take the UK and its adoption issues serious when such a big group like Forgotten Mothers are the people behind such irresponsible behaviour. They have named and shamed me. Stating myself and a fellow member have continuously harassed FM for years. You only have to go to their site (if they don't remove them) and see that I have never had a disagreement with any one until a couple of days ago. They use their own reasons but the start was a couple of days ago an adoptive mother applied to join the site and our opinions were asked. I immediately said is she was genuine then she should be applauded. She had said she wanted to know more from mothers to help her daughter. My view was that unless people are open or at least listen to one another there will never be an understanding. Another member also agreed and was immediately attacked. All other members said no, along with a lot of nasty comments.
I made a perfectly honest observation to someone on another site and was immediately hung and accused of being multiple people.
Everyone has a right to an opinion and everyone should be allowed to reach their opinion over time. I will not get pulled into any more FM member rants, And I am sure people will come to their own conclusions. I have been public with my responses while FM have controlled who sees what. FM is a long established group which overtime have made a lot of claims. Yet they refuse to go public and let the site speak for its self.
FM is supposed to be for all the forgotten and abused mothers hoping for justice and change, my own mother was one of those mothers. I hope the behaviour of the two sites does not detract from the the serious issues and the people who need helping. Here is the link to the site. http://spottypurplepeopleeater.blogspot.com/